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Mental Health in Schools Practitioner Listserv
(10/9/06)
Responses to Recent School Violence:
- > A Principal asks: How should We Respond?
- A student support director responds: "Go beyond reviewing plans for
crisis response."
- > American School Counselor Association offer "Advice to America's
Families"
Feedback from Colleagues:
- > Concern about a special education misdiagnosis and what to do about
it?
- > My daughter has special needs and she needs more support at school
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Responses to
Recent School Violence:
The shootings have prompted a range of
responses and renewed commitment to school safety from all levels of leadership.
Here are two efforts that emphasize the importance of moving beyond another
review of the crisis response plan.
- (1) "A principal at one of our high schools asked me the other day about
how we should respond in the wake of recent school shootings. He knew about
reviewing shelter-in-place plans, crisis response plans and the like. But he
wondered about whether to discuss any of this with students. He knew, for
example, that talking to students about suicidal thoughts does not increase
the chances of ‘copycat' suicides, but what about violence directed at others?
If we talk about these events with students, do we risk increasing the chances
of a copycat event? Conversely, if we don't talk about the events, do we risk
increasing the chances? I thought about it over-night and then sent the email
message below to all our principals and student support staff. My thought was
that we could make sure we were doing what we could to prevent such an event
without having to discuss specific recent school shootings. But I wondered
what others thought and what they are doing."
- >Information sent to Principals:
- Given the shootings that have happened in schools across the nation and in
other countries recently, I am aware that the Commissioner of Education has
asked campuses to review crisis response plans, shelter in place plans,
etc. All of that is necessary and helpful, but it is primarily focused
on what to do after a disaster has occurred.
- I would like to encourage you to review your prevention plans, as well.
- Based on what we know about shooters that were students, the following
items should be reviewed
- >>Do you have a bully prevention plan in place? Board Policy
requires that we have a bullying and harassment prevention effort at each
campus, regardless of level (elementary, middle or high). If you need
assistance with that, contact me.
- >>Are you doing all you can to make sure students feel "connected"
to their school? If you aren't familiar with the research on school
connectedness, there is a brief but powerful monograph on that issue, "The
Untapped Power of Schools…" at http://allaboutkids.umn.edu
- Although the research talks about teens, school connectedness starts in
elementary school and needs to be attended to pre-K through 12. I can
do a brief presentation to your staff on this research should you be
interested.
- >>Has the Lifesaver Program been implemented at your campus? This
is a secondary school program we shared with counselors several years ago
that allows students to report things they are hearing and seeing that
concern them. If you want to know more about that, let me know.
- >>Do students know to whom they can go when they are getting
stressed out? Have we taught students (rather than just assuming they know),
and reminded them frequently, that there are people who are available to
help when they experience problems and concerns?
- >>Are teachers encouraged frequently to find at least one strength
that each student has and to let the student know that they noticed that
strength? Every student needs that recognition and affirmation, including
the acting out student, the excellent student, and the "invisible" student.
Is there at least one adult with whom every student has a positive
relationship?
- I know you have lots to do and a lot to be concerned about. I also know
that you already do many of the things I have listed. These are simply
reminders of constructive, preventive strategies. Let us know if we can
help."
- (2) From: "American School Counselor Association Provides Advice to
America's Families in Response to Recent School Shootings" See their news
release – Tragedy Activates Trained Specialists to Connect with Students,
Parents, and Community (October 2, 2006) – http://schoolcounselor.org
- [Here is an excerpt}
- "In response to the recent school shootings across the country, the
American School Counselor Association (ASCA) today urges parents, teachers
and counselors to work together to ensure the social and personal well-being
of each and every student. ASCA has released a series of tips for
families and communities across the nation. The information was
developed and approved by leading school counselors who are expertly
qualified to address the academic, social and personal aspects of a
student's life. ....
- >Know Your Child's School Counselor – Parents should get to
know their student's school counselor and teachers. By partnering with
the school, parents can better help students with both academic and social
development issues. Having just one caring adult in each student's life can
increase the likelihood of preventing school violence.
- >Be Honest: Acknowledge and Address Concerns – If your child
asks questions about what happened recently in Colorado or Pennsylvania,
provide honest and accurate information. Let them know that you are
upset, too. Address the facts in an age appropriate manner.
- >Stay Involved in Your Child's Life – While friends become an
increasingly important part of a child's life over time, parents need to
stay involved in and monitor their kids' daily activities. It is also
important, especially during stressful times, that a student's life remains
structured and follows a normal routine.
- >Explore Ways to Eliminate or Reduce Stressors – Help children
to identify their stressors – homework, lack of friends, sports demands –
and then review strategies for "decompressing" their lifestyle. Prioritizing
and talking through hardships is often a positive strategy in itself.
Also, be alert to signs and symptoms that something is wrong – don't dismiss
physical or emotional clues...."
Listserv
Participants: What's been done in your school in response to the recent
school violence? What prevention strategies are pursued? Sent responses to:
Ltaylor@ucla.edu
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Feedback
from Colleagues:
>Re: Concern about a special education
misdiagnosis and what to do about it?
- "It is very upsetting to read about someone doubting an MR diagnosis is
correct because the student doesn't ‘look' retarded. Does anyone else share
her feelings that this diagnosis is inappropriate? Has she/he looked at the
psychological evaluation that must be done for all students classified by the
IEP team? Another factor to consider is some children come to school with
various medical diagnoses, including MR, that schools will many times go along
with. To get an accurate feel for a cognitive diagnosis such as MR it is
important to look at the level and quality of reasoning and intellect a
student brings to a situation, also how is the student compared with his/her
same age peers. At young ages students with MR can do many rote memory tasks
others can do, it's at the higher grade levels when more reasoning comes into
play that MR becomes more apparent even for those children who don't look
MR."
>Re: My daughter has special needs and she needs
more support at school
- (1) "Regarding the mother whose child is continually bullied. It sounds
like a dialog with school personnel needs to happen. It is hard to believe
that no one is doing anything. Is the school aware of the situation? Has the
teacher/coach been asked about the comments made? etc... In my experience many
children who are always picked on and have no friends often share in at least
part of the reason for the situation. It sounds like Mom is not taking into
account what the school is doing or giving them a chance to respond.To totally
believe every word your child says and support their ideas that everyone is
out to get them sets them up for a long, lonely life where others are always
blamed for what happens to them. Not giving children the idea that they are
responsible for their own fate is damaging. We all have challenges we need to
deal with, how we respond to these challenges that define us as a victim or a
survivor."
- (2) "There are anti-bullying programs that can be implemented by schools
and that include skills training for the bullying target. The mom should
consider discussing this with school officials, ask that the program be
implemented & monitored and ensure that her daughter is protected both by
skills training and by the maintenance of a safe environment."
- (3) "I encourage parents/primary caregivers to contact the school and
request a conference with the teachers involved, an administrator and school
counselor &/or school social worker. The parent needs to communicate to
the school personnel there is a concern based on what the daughter is telling
her. This is a time to share information to get a clearer picture about what
is happening, when, where, etc. The parent/teacher team can then devise a plan
to address the issues. If there is friction between the parent and school
staff this should be addressed in order to work as a team. It may even be
appropriate to include the 15 year old in the conference. Parent needs to hear
from the teaching/school staff how the issue has been addressed up to that
point (if it has been). Getting everyone on the same page with the report is
important so as not to perpetuate further resentment, splitting, and
misinformation. If the information gives a picture of a larger problem than
this one student, perhaps a school wide program addressing bullying, tolerance
and safety issues should be considered. If the issue is primarily with this
student, perhaps some peer mediation or conflict resolution in the counselor's
office would give the students involved more appropriate options in handling
their conflict."
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